Friday, March 14, 2014

Welcome...

Welcome to our latest update of your WHS 1970 blog. Most of you have had your fill of winter and welcome any sign of Spring. Baseball is around the corner, not to mention perhaps a green beer in your near future.

This month Cindy caught up with one of our classmates, Doug Diem. Certainly one of the good guys. I know you will enjoy Cindy's profile as we learn more about Doug and his family. Along the way in the update we toss in a few images, mostly auto related, to remind us of life back then. Finally, as we have done from time to time, we try to incorporate a public figure from our childhood to reflect their impact on us and what they are doing these days. Sonny Fox, host of Wonderama, was kind to make himself available to our blog. I believe you will be surprised to read this man is much more than the host of a children's show. It was a pleasure to speak with him.

Enjoy!

Classmate spotlight...

Our classmate spotlight this month brings us to a Hopelawn guy, Doug Diem. Doug grew up in Hopelawn and has nothing but fond memories of his childhood days.

In Fords Junior High Doug took an aptitude test and scored high on mechanics. He decided back then that is what he would do! After graduation in 1970 Doug applied for and took the civil service test to be a cadet on the Woodbridge Police Department. He was one of seven who took the test and passed. He went through his physical, two weeks of training and decided this was not for him. (He acknowledges a lot of peer pressure about becoming a "Narc" at the time had an effect on him) He was pleased he qualified, but does not regret not staying with the police force.

Doug traveled to and settled in Southern California where he still lives with his wife, Bonnie. Doug has been married to Bonnie since December 16, 1984. He says they were both late bloomers and got a late start. They have two children, a son Doug and a daughter Jacqueline. Doug is currently employed by Detroit Diesel Distribution in California. He builds marine engines. He is merely days from retiring...congratulations Doug!

Doug was quiet and shy in school and remembers his friendships with Mike Dalia, Frank Smak, Greg Fairbanks, Steve Silogy and Jack Taylor. Although they no longer keep in touch he considers them all friends to this day. He had a part time job in high school pumping gas at the Acme Garage in Hopelawn with Jack Taylor.

He remembers Mrs. Horn as a hard, strict mathematics teacher, but one from which he learned and respected.

Doug and I talked about anything he may have done differently in school. He would have be more involved in school instead of sitting back and watching the world go by. He was an avid race car driver and spent many weekends at the Englishtown Raceway in New Jersey. He is very proud of winning the National Hot Rod Association Nationals at Englishtown in 1981 driving his white 1967 Chevy II.

To my surprise, he told me he is one of the biggest fans of Billy Joel! Needless to say, that sealed the deal for Cindy! He supports and roots for the San Diego Chargers, but has no interest in any of the baseball or basketball teams. I asked him if he had any regrets, he said only one. He should have asked Patty Navalany Launhardt to the senior prom. He never did, so neither attended. He fondly recalls Patty and thinks about their friendship. Sorry Patty, he did not ask you to the prom. He has been so excited to attend the reunions and he and Bonnie had a wonderful time at the 40th. Anyone that had the pleasure of meeting Bonnie for the first time realized our friend Doug is one very lucky gentleman. Doug encourages all classmates to come to the next reunion. They are so much fun and he wants to see everyone.

In addition to looking forward to the 45th he is also fulfilling a promise he made to Bonnie....he will take her to Ireland! He's working on it.

Fifty seven to seventy...




"You're three minutes late"...

Those four words I was not expecting to start off my phone conversation with one "Irwin Sonny Fox". "Rich, in my industry, when you arrange for a 8 AM phone interview I am ready at 8 AM". Sonny went on to explain that throughout his career, whether that be radio or television he had to be ready for that air time "ON" light or he missed his mark. Fortunately, in short order he made it clear that he was not upset but rather his sense of humor to throw me off my mark. What followed was a memorable conversation with a remarkable gentleman from our childhood.

The mere mention of the name Sonny Fox provokes immediate memories of our childhood sitting in front of that television set on Sunday mornings. "Rich, to be remembered is most flattering, but what is really remarkable is that when I meet these people, my kids, 50 years later and when they see me, they regress to their 10 year old selves, just like that. To this very day it really is something to know you can leave that kind of thumbprint on a child's mind."

From 1959 to 1967, Sonny hosted the children's television show "Wonderama," which ran for four hours every Sunday morning. When we tuned in we might see magical acts, live performances, annual visits by Se. Robert Kennedy and one-on-one conversations between Fox and audience members.

Sonny juggled serious to zany for four hours each Sunday. Oh the prizes... we all remember the Emenee organ. With four hours of programming there was plenty of air time to fill and toy commercials were the answer. "In the summer we handled about twenty commercial spots a show but come the fall that would jump to 42." When asked what became of all the toys throughout the year Sonny explained that they saved them all and just prior to the holidays he would ask his crew to select from the collection to take home for their own families.

"I never did pretend I was a child... I wore a suit and tie and I respected them," he said. "Very few of us learn to listen to kids. It was a show that played to children's strengths, their curiosity, their intelligence and their ability to enjoy the moment. There are no more children's shows on the local scene and that is too bad. Now when children are served by the networks or cable companies they tend to think of children as consumers, in demographics. When we were local we were able to think of our children as our responsibility.

Sonny Fox, now 88, a Brooklyn native, originally thought he would follow his father into the textile business. However, after graduating from high school early and waiting to get into college in North Carolina, he took a few courses at NYU, thinking he could transfer the credits. He gave radio production and radio writing a try, realizing "that's what I wanted to do."

His new found passion would have to wait, however, while he served in World War II, during which he which he faced the trials of an imprison camp. Returning to the United States, he earned a degree in radio production from NYU.

Early on in his career, Sonny (whose given name is Irwin) worked on the radio show "Candid Microphone" a precursor to Alan Funt's "Candid Camera'; a children's show "The Finder" in St. Louis; a travel oriented CBS television series "Let's Take a Trip"; the game show "The $64,000 Challenge"; the aforementioned "Wonderama'; a children's competition show "Just for Fun" and others.

He later developed his own television production. In the mid 70's he served as the vice president for children's programming for NBC. And for years he has worked with Population Communications International to use the craft of storytelling to bring about social change around the world.

Sonny took time from his storied career to write his autobiography. "There is not one thing in my professional life that I set out to do, "Sonny said. "I wanted the title of my book to be 'Meet Me at the Crossroads of the Impossible and the Inevitable'. The title actually is "But You Made the Front Page!: War, Wonderama and a Whole Bunch of Life." The title, in part, refers to his mother's reaction to his firing from NBC..."at least you made the front page of the Daily News!".

Sonny and I spoke about life beyond Wonderama and I was impressed to learn this veteran is a survivor of a WW II Jewish prison camp. At age 88 he is still passionate about his craft. Today he lives in sunny Southern California and revisits New York when he can. One definite destination each trip is the Carnegie Deli because, in his opinion, they offer up the best cheesecake around. In fact, upon his return from the war he stood in front of the deli, placed his beret over his heart and quietly said to himself, "I'm home." Like so many of us that have traveled and lived elsewhere, there is only one home town.

This is a man that ended our phone conversation with the sound advice for us to embrace the bond we have as classmates during such a special time and special generation. "Take every opportunity to stay in touch with each other."

Please take a moment to visit his web site: www.sonnyfoxtv.com  His book is amazing and I recommend it highly.


Back in the day...




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